Become the Man God Created You To Be
Become the Man God Created You To Be
with honor, integrity, fulfillment, and inheritance
with honor, integrity, fulfillment, and inheritance
Manhood is a valued asset that our modern society needs yet it has been undermined unknowingly or knowingly through the erosion of fathers, traditions, and honor.
The idea of “masculinity” has become shallow, radicalized, or is undergoing an attempt to become entirely erased.
But in a world where the media is shouting different narratives to men on what a man should be, women are being taught they don’t need men, and families are increasingly evolving toward more fatherless homes, how can men feel appreciated, seen, and valued?
The truth is any of the worldly ideas of masculinity will end up empty until you hold the true signature of masculinity from the lens of its creator, God.
How did God intend men to be, live,
behave, and become?
A genuine mark of masculinity can be found in a man's devotion to God, integrity
to values, earnest fulfillment, and delivering an inheritance for his family legacy.
Men, we’re given the opportunity today to truly distinguish what it means to be a
man in leadership.
And it has to happen now.
Introducing…
A genuine mark of masculinity can be found in a man's devotion to God, integrity to values, earnest fulfillment, and delivering an inheritance for his family legacy.
Men, we’re given the opportunity today to truly distinguish what it means to be a man in leadership. And it has to happen now.
Introducing…
An exclusive mastermind for men leading the
way in conviction, honor, devotion, vitality,
integrity, quality of life, legacy, and fulfillment.
An exclusive mastermind for men leading the way in conviction, honor, devotion, vitality, integrity, quality of life, legacy, and fulfillment.
Can you imagine a brotherhood where…
The men in the group are devoted to truth, intention, and clarity of purpose
You’re held accountable in all areas of providers, protector, and provision by men who can see your blindspots and support you through them. More eyes on you = higher standards met
Attain a calibration of heart and spine so you can be emotionally equipped to feel AND stand firm in your position of value having neither emotion nor mental states overrun your life
Unburden the woman in your life and bring your struggles to your brothers around you and to God above you so she can remain feminine and you can remain her man
Bring back the play in your life like when you were on sports teams growing up and enjoy camaraderie with your boys!
That’s why Guards of Honor exists. Because here is the
utmost truth.
MEN ARE NEEDED.
MEN ARE Valuable.
MEN Make A Difference.
GOH Team
GERARD ADAMS
Gerard Adams, “The Millennial Mentor,”
is an American entrepreneur,
angel investor, leadership mentor, and
philanthropist. He co-founded
EliteDaily.com, the largest online
millennial publication in the U.S.,
which reached 80 million monthly
readers before selling for $50 million.
Now, he is the founder of Leaders
Create Leaders, a global leadershi
p development company for
entrepreneurs, and coaches high
-performing founders scaling to 8-9
figures, as well as men in the Men’s
Mastermind, Guards of Honor.
KELLY GARDNER
Kelly Gardner is a relationship coach
and men's work facilitator with a
background in drama therapy, non
-violent communication, storytelling,
and childhood development. His more
recent experiences in parenting,
personal development, and leadership
training combine to create a unique
approach to helping individuals
cultivate their most loving
relationships. As a founder, facilitator,
and participant of a half dozen men's
groups over the past decade he is
proud to call Guards of Honor his
home.
MATT PAETZ
Matthew is a trusted coach for
solopreneurs seeking to overcome
barriers. He helps clients unlock their
potential and create fulfilling
lives. After hitting rock bottom and
battling self-doubt, Matthew dedicated
himself to helping others escape fear
and limiting beliefs. He shows that
success is for those willing to take
action, even when uncomfortable. His
work has guided hundreds to
overcome fears and build thriving
businesses that reflect their true selves.
MATT WHITLEY
Matt Whitley is a North Carolina entrepreneur and co-founder of Happy
and Hale, a restaurant brand dedicated
to healthy, sustainable food. He is also
a real estate investor and serves on the Board of Directors for Journeymen
Triangle, a non-profit focused on boys'
and men’s mental health. His training
in Men’s Work includes experience
with Sacred Sons and the ManKind
Project.
DANE WOLF
For over 25 years, Dane has been an Indigenous arts practitioner,
ceremonialist, and guide, as well as a facilitator and teacher in
psych/somatic therapy. With over 15
years of experience in the healing arts, meditation, breathwork, and holistic
tantric and kundalini yoga, Dane has
been inspired to be on the cutting edge
of evolution, working deeply with
masculine and feminine polarities as a spiritual life coach and embodiment practitioner for the last decade.
BC SERNA
BC has spent the last decade traveling
to over 80 countries, working with
diverse individuals, companies, and
non-profits. He teaches people to heal
their hearts, awaken their souls, and embrace their true selves. Unable to
find the community, content, and
mentorship he sought, he created it
himself through initiatives like The Traveling Good, Pursuing Purpose,
and his online audience of over 100k
love tribe members. He feels he is just beginning his story!
GOH Team
GERARD ADAMS
Gerard Adams, “The Millennial Mentor,”
is an American entrepreneur,
angel investor, leadership mentor, and
philanthropist. He co-founded
EliteDaily.com, the largest online
millennial publication in the U.S.,
which reached 80 million monthly
readers before selling for $50 million.
Now, he is the founder of Leaders
Create Leaders, a global leadershi
p development company for
entrepreneurs, and coaches high
-performing founders scaling to 8-9
figures, as well as men in the Men’s
Mastermind, Guards of Honor.
Kelly Gardner
Kelly Gardner is a relationship coach
and men's work facilitator with a
background in drama therapy, non
-violent communication, storytelling,
and childhood development. His more
recent experiences in parenting,
personal development, and leadership
training combine to create a unique
approach to helping individuals
cultivate their most loving
relationships. As a founder, facilitator,
and participant of a half dozen men's
groups over the past decade he is
proud to call Guards of Honor his
home.
Matt Paetz
Matthew is a trusted coach for
solopreneurs seeking to overcome
barriers. He helps clients unlock their
potential and create fulfilling
lives. After hitting rock bottom and
battling self-doubt, Matthew dedicated
himself to helping others escape fear
and limiting beliefs. He shows that
success is for those willing to take
action, even when uncomfortable. His
work has guided hundreds to
overcome fears and build thriving
businesses that reflect their true selves.
MATT WHITLEY
Matt Whitley is a North Carolina entrepreneur and co-founder of Happy
and Hale, a restaurant brand dedicated to healthy, sustainable food. He is also a real estate investor and serves on the Board of Directors for Journeymen Triangle, a non-profit focused on boys' and men’s mental health. His training in Men’s Work includes experience with Sacred Sons and the ManKind Project.
DANE WOLF
For over 25 years, Dane has been an Indigenous arts practitioner, ceremonialist, and guide, as well as a facilitator and teacher in psych/somatic therapy. With over 15 years of experience in the healing arts, meditation, breathwork, and holistic tantric and kundalini yoga, Dane has been inspired to be on the cutting edge of evolution, working deeply with masculine and feminine polarities as a spiritual life coach and embodiment practitioner for the last decade.
BC SERNA
BC has spent the last decade traveling to over 80 countries, working with diverse individuals, companies, and non-profits. He teaches people to heal their hearts, awaken their souls, and embrace their true selves. Unable to find the community, content, and mentorship he sought, he created it himself through initiatives like The Traveling Good, Pursuing Purpose, and his online audience of over 100k love tribe members. He feels he is just beginning his story!
Let’s realize the importance men make.
Father involvement is associated with lower rates of child abuse and neglect.
Father involvement is linked with better infant sleep.
Father involvement is associated with positive child health outcomes in millions of children each year.
When dad comes to Christ first, 93% of families will follow.
Research shows that when fathers are involved, their children are: 2 times more likely to go to college. 80% less likely to spend time in jail. 75% less likely to experience teen pregnancy.
When a father isn’t there the story looks way different. Check out these statistics that we now know collected from the unfortunate lack of men in the home.
Children in father-absent homes account for:
• 71% of all high school dropouts
• 90% of homeless and runaway children
• 63% of youth suicides
Let’s realize the importance men make.
Father involvement is associated with lower rates of child abuse and neglect.
Father involvement is linked with better infant sleep.
Father involvement is associated with positive child health outcomes in millions of children each year.
When dad comes to Christ first, 93% of families will follow.
Research shows that when fathers are involved, their children are: 2 times more likely to go to college. 80% less likely to spend time in jail. 75% less likely to experience teen pregnancy.
When a father isn’t there the story looks way different. Check out these statistics that we now know collected from the unfortunate lack of men in the home.
Children in father-absent homes account for:
• 71% of all high school dropouts
• 90% of homeless and runaway children
• 63% of youth suicides
Our Pillars
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Provider
FLIP CARD
A provider is someone who provides the needs of their partner and home.
It mainly focuses on financial needs but also includes providing shared responsibilities,
emotional support, sexual needs, and time.
In Guards of Honor, we will determine where you provide generously and where you can improve your provision and create a clear roadmap of actions and standards to incorporate into your lifestyle.
In Guards of Honor, we will determine where you provide generously and where you can improve your provision and create a clear roadmap of actions and standards to incorporate into your lifestyle.
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Partner
FLIP CARD
Partnership reminds us that we are all called to work together to serve God and others. Within your romantic partnership, you will be called to deeply love, cherish, and lead your relationship in a way that is reflective of God’s love. Bearing your partner’s burdens and growing in true union. Whether you have a partner or are looking for her, this mastermind will equip you to love louder and lead better for your future family's sake.
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Protector
FLIP CARD
Yes, you’ll be asked to become a protector through your physical strength but also in your ability to defend your faith & values. You’ll be encouraged to say no when it isn't easy but it is righteous so you remain the authority of the household, protecting it from any harm whether physical or spiritual.
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Producer
FLIP CARD
Be a creator of a meaningful means. Be a producer who ideates, manages, and calls the shots for a project that has been placed on your heart by God. In Guards of Honor we will push you to not take your God-given gifts for granted but to put them to work. Build something bigger than yourself.
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Preparation
FLIP CARD
Plan, time management, and discipline are key qualities for all men to master. Guards of Honor will give you metrics that will revolutionize your preparation in all seasons. Start every day clear, vitalized, and focused.
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Philosopher
FLIP CARD
Use your brain, articulate, and practice timeless wisdom to work out ideas in critical problem-solving positions. Be a critical thinker and find the best solutions with Guards of Honor spotting your blindspots and guiding you to your discerned answers.
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Peacemaker
FLIP CARD
We’re not called to be peacekeepers but to be peacemakers. In Guards of Honor we will establish routine habits for you to create and protect your peace so your well-being is never last on your priority list again.
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Play
FLIP CARD
You know that it’s ok to be creative, play, laugh, and have fun as a man, right? When is the last time you flexed your play muscle and just had a good time with your boys? It’s crucial that we invest in enjoyment and not become overburdened by life. In Guards of Honor we’ll be having a lot of memorable experiences that are novel yet simple in getting you to get loose and play so the cortisol & stress can go down and the laughs can go up.